Be alert for thought patterns that are not based on reality. The following cognitive distortions will hinder your effectiveness: helplessness, passivity, negativity, defensiveness, and inflexibility. 
Do You Have Cognitive Distortions?
Are You Realistic?
To be effective, you must listen to and see the problems. Look at all sides of an issue. Once you’ve squarely faced reality, seek solutions and opportunities. Sometimes what we call a problem, God calls an opportunity. 
ABCs of Leadership
Sometimes leadership is difficult, but it doesn’t have to be complicated if you stick with the ABCs.
