How do you keep things in proper perspective?
Begin by considering your source of wisdom.
A group of 12 spies, all leaders with the same opportunities had vastly differing opinions, Num 13:1-2
Why did they have opposite opinions?
Godly leaders act in love and truth regardless of the cost (2Cor 4:5). Victory costs! Paul knew this when he became a believer. The Lord said about Paul, “For I will show him how many things he must suffer for My name’s sake” (Acts 9:16).