Read Hebrews 13:7-8.
Remember the leaders who have gone before you.
One of the most difficult things to handle as a leader is when those closest to you complain to you. God takes complaints about leaders seriously because no one becomes a leader without His permission (1Sam 8:7).
There will always be people who want to interfere with God’s vision for your life. As a leader, you need to be confident in the mission that God has given you. If you are, you can remain balanced when others try to force their agenda on your life.