How Do You Look at People?

As a leader, how do you look at people?

Do you look at them as people generally do, by their outward appearance?
Or, do you look at them as God does, by their heart?

But the Lord said unto Samuel, Look not on his countenance, or on the height of his stature; because I have refused him: for the Lord seeth not as man seeth; for man looketh on the outward appearance, but the Lord looketh on the heart. 1Sam 16:7

What does it mean to look at someone’s heart? It means to consider their motives.

Do they do things out of

self-interest?
obligation?
guilt?
fear?
love? (Eph 6:6)

Of course, you’ll need to ask God to help you determine motives. He’s the One who sees everyone’s hearts.

It’s also a helpful exercise to consider why you, as a leader, do the things you do.

4 responses to “How Do You Look at People?”

JanBeek

2021-12-15

Thanks for the reminder. Jesus sees our motives behind our actions and those reasons for action are much more important than the actions themselves. Lord, keep them pure!

gracelead

2021-12-15

AMEN!

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davidsdailydose

2021-12-15

Excellent. It’s also a good idea to ask people about their motives. Or ask someone who knows them well. We often judge ourselves by our intentions, but judge others by their actions. Checking my own motives, first, is also a good idea.

This is great stuff, and a helpful reminder. Thanks!

gracelead

2021-12-15

Yes, I have to remember to ask myself about my motives compared to what God wants.

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